A: Not much…and children should not be exposed to them; or Porn: the new Topsy & Tim?

See part 1: Q: What is the difference between lads’ mags and quotes from rapists?

The recent study conducted by the Universities of Surrey and Middlesex having found a disgustingly close resemblance between the material produced by lads’ mags and direct quotes from convicted rapists (see my blog on the findings here), it is important to consider the implications of the publication of lads’ mags on all aspects of society. The one ‘aspect’ I’d like to focus on in this post is children. This will be a flying visit when in actual fact, millions of words could be spent on the issues – but I hope it reminds you of, or perhaps introduces you to their existence.

2 things: first, the harmful message of sexual aggression and dangerous sexual behaviour is not one for adults; nor is it for children. If there are increases in child-child, teen-teen rape and sexual violence; or in disrespectful attitudes towards the other sex and relationships/sex, it is coming from somewhere. Yes, parents. Yes, celebrity culture. Yes, TV. But yes, written publications and their messages that spread like wildfire. These should not be available to young people. There are indeed guidelines regarding who shops are allowed to sell to – but even lads’ mags’ articles’ titles should not prey on innocent boys with shocking, colourful titles about sexual conquering (OR, and this is for another time, how to achieve the Jacob Cullen-esque “quintessentially male” body type). Nor should they prey on innocent little girls unaware of the traumatic sexualised expectations that await them (or, so we think. Let’s change that, too.)

Secondly, Lads’ mags operate on the ‘sex sells’ marketing hook. They include a lot of porn. Pornographic images strong and do not leave the mind. They are also chemically addictive and these first exposures are the root of many child and adult porn addictions. The average age of a child’s first exposure to online pornography is 11 and lads’ mags make ‘paper’ pornography even more accessible than online pornography. Porn productions exploit ‘actors’ and often involve trafficked victims. Porn helps perpetuate the demand for prostitution and sex trafficking. Adult porn has taken on a childified nature that creates and encourages the demand for child porn.

Lads’ mags are available in virtually every grocery and newsagent’s shop you walk into. Their sales teams are smart: they increasingly have them places at the forefront of the magazine sections, to entice customers. Children and young people walk into these shops on the innocent grounds of buying sweets or accompanying adults on shopping trips. Lads’ mags are at their eye-level.

Porn and harmful messages of sexually agressive and dangerous behaviour are, literally, before our children’s eyes.

Ideally, these magazines would be banned for their ridiculous content. (So would Glamour, Cosmo and the ‘sisterhood’). And it is with the higher aim of creating a non-sexualised and non-sexualising, non-objectified and non-objectifying culture that we fight the battle, one day and conversation and study and petition and law at a time. In the meantime, children should not have to cover their eyes. Let’s cover the lads’ mags.

Begun by a concerned father outraged at the magazine display in his local Co-op store, the petition was born yesterday and asks for lads’ mags to be covered in black liner, concealing all but the magazine’s own titles. With us? Help make modesty wraps law. Here is the petition. Click, sign and pass it on.

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One response to “A: Not much…and children should not be exposed to them; or Porn: the new Topsy & Tim?

  1. Pingback: Q: What’s the difference between lads’ mags and quotes from rapists? « "Won't it be worth anything just to have looked for one moment beyond the edge of the world."·

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